I've rewritten this "thought" three times now, each time struck by how cheap words can be in the face of having lost someone so precious. But I want Gulliver's family to know that he has not been forgotten - not even by those who didn't know him tremendously well. It has been ten years since I met Gulliver - he was freshly thirteen, and I was nearly fifteen - and still I remember him. I think of him. I want his family to know that.